Helene Rodger from 'Passion for Fusion' chats to Scotland's Women on what is was like travelling to Scotland for the first time and how she helps others make Scotland their home. And how we as Scotland's women can learn from each other and un learn.
Wee snippet from the show.....
"I always ask when I'm doing like training and anti-racism training, I always ask people like, think about your circle of friends. Or think about your circle of trust or think about not in the work situation, because in work we all work with different people and that's fine.
We come and go. But beyond that, how many people are different from you? That tells you a lot. If you can answer that question, and I'm not asking you to answer it and think about like real community, real friendships around you. Yeah. How many people are different from you are from a different culture. Uh, from a different country are a different colour.
That tells a lot about us as a society in Scotland when we're thinking about, um, race and colour and culture. In culture because it's about learning about what the other cultures do that we can pick up or we can work with as well. And so for me, that one is like friendships. Deep connections is one of the things that I want to teach people"
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[00:01:40] Welcome to Scotland's Women, Delina. Thank you so much for coming on today. I couldn't wait to have
[00:01:56] you on the podcast. What you've done here in Scotland and what you continue to do is just
[00:02:02] like so amazing and so inspiring.
[00:02:05] Thanks for having me. So my name is Delina and obviously I would say you're self-custed.
[00:02:13] Sometimes it pronounced differently, sometimes it's spelled differently, but I don't mind. There's a
[00:02:18] story behind why my name is pronounced and written differently, but that's a story for
[00:02:24] another day. So right in Delina and I am the project director of passion for
[00:02:29] fusion and I live in Edinburgh. I am a mummy to three wonderful beautiful children. Yeah, I
[00:02:38] consider Scotland a whole now. I'm originally from Uganda. I was born in Uganda, but my parents
[00:02:47] are born in Rwanda and so before Rwanda is Francophone and Uganda is Anglophone. That's
[00:02:57] how my name is mixed up. But I'm originally from Uganda and it's kind of difficult sometimes
[00:03:03] when people ask you because your actual origins in African culture, my actual origin is where
[00:03:12] my parents are born and that's Rwanda.
[00:03:16] Is Scotland your home now? What was it like when you first travelled here, when you first
[00:03:22] visited Scotland? What was that like?
[00:03:25] Yeah, so I just finished university where I did international relations. So travel was on my
[00:03:34] bucket list. I always wanted to travel. My dream was to be an ambassador. So an opportunity
[00:03:41] came when my sister was here. She was like, oh, just come and visit Scotland is beautiful. It's
[00:03:47] really nice. And I thought, oh, why not? I've just finished uni. It's like Gapia's type
[00:03:53] situation. I've not got a job yet. It's great in a past year. When you're in Uganda, for
[00:04:02] example, when you hear about going abroad, it's such an opportunity because it's always
[00:04:09] a glory side in a way that everything is beautiful. You get a job, lots of money. So I was so excited
[00:04:18] to come and join my sister. And so when I came to Scotland, it was in April. And I wasn't told
[00:04:28] about the weather now in April. It's like nice and spring and bright and everybody's kind
[00:04:36] of like getting their heavy jackets off and we're all getting a nice sweepers on. And oh my God,
[00:04:42] I was freezing. So what was the temperature like? We're at home. It's tropical. It's always sunny.
[00:04:49] We don't actually have winter. It's always sunshine. And then you get rainy season. But
[00:04:55] even then rainy seasons are not cold compared to Scotland. So April was like it was winter
[00:05:03] for me. It was freezing. I had my hat, my gloves, my cap, everything booked because I did not get
[00:05:11] warmth in my body. But to think that now in April, I'm one of those people like, oh, it's getting warm.
[00:05:19] I want to get more and more. I'll just lose the lyric. But yeah, those are some of the things
[00:05:23] that I remember arriving and it was so cold. And you know, it was so beautiful as well. Scotland
[00:05:30] was so beautiful. And you know, all the nice buildings, it was lovely to be in Scotland.
[00:05:39] When did you feel like you were going to go right? I'm going to make a go of it in Scotland.
[00:05:43] I'm going to be here with my sister. I mean, I was young. I just finished university.
[00:05:47] You know, I was exploring new opportunities. So it was like, okay, so you can stay here and watch
[00:05:55] and you know, and then when I was sort of combating the money, you know, you can get and like even
[00:06:01] at minimum wage, it felt like it was a big sum of money compared to a job that as an entry level,
[00:06:07] I would get back home. So I thought, oh, that that would be a good beginning to start with
[00:06:15] and start walking and in Scotland. But it was never all rosy, you know, so there's a lot of
[00:06:22] like legality before you start walking and, you know, getting your visa to properly work and do
[00:06:30] things like that. So it's not that straightforward. So once I'd made the decision that I wanted to
[00:06:35] stay then we started thinking, okay, so how what is the best way to try and work in the UT?
[00:06:42] And so after six months, which I can't originally for six months, but at that point,
[00:06:48] it was actually quite confusing for me because I thought I don't want to stay here.
[00:06:54] Yeah, because it was like sort of like a bittersweet moment that you want to stay because of all
[00:07:02] these opportunities, but the culture shock for me didn't allow me to want to stay.
[00:07:09] So I think I said to you before, I come from a sort of like very community oriented
[00:07:16] everybody knows everybody. Everybody's helping each other. Like you don't get a lot of loneliness
[00:07:24] and isolation like we did because you're sitting in that inner flat and you don't know your
[00:07:31] neighbors, you don't know anybody and it's quite daunting. It's quite difficult because we talk
[00:07:38] like you get back home, you get out and you speak to everybody like your next your neighbors,
[00:07:44] they are everybody you're on, because I'm visiting your cousins right here. Everybody's in the house.
[00:07:49] So it was quite a lonely sort of experience and to begin with when you go to a community where
[00:07:57] everybody keeps themselves to themselves, it's like, hey, this is different. You know, and I mean,
[00:08:03] I always joke with my sister because right now we're like next door neighbors and I go over and
[00:08:08] get some salt and some sugar and it's like, oh, this is like being back home, but we
[00:08:13] would never have to we would never have done that. Like you would run out of whatever and you just
[00:08:17] have to make do because you don't have like you don't know your neighbor and it's quite rude
[00:08:23] and how do you how dare you go and chop their door? And even when you do that, it's like,
[00:08:28] can I help you? It's not like that friendly face. Oh, hi, oh yeah. No, can I help you? And it's
[00:08:34] not welcoming that way but you get used to it and you learn and deal with it. So I was
[00:08:41] for me, I've set out to create a community around me because I was used to having a community around
[00:08:47] me. So being in Fulton was nice but I didn't want to give up what I had. I always believed like
[00:08:57] that you got to solve the problem that you have. You have to solve your own problems. So
[00:09:05] and for me, it was like, I'm sure a lot of people feel like this as well. You know, a lot of people
[00:09:11] feel that coming to this country you don't know anybody to begin with. And so where do you start?
[00:09:18] Yeah. So from my own lived experience, I thought I have to do something. I must do
[00:09:23] something around it. So obviously we you know, like we went to church and then we started
[00:09:28] building connections, free charts. Then you always meet someone who goes, oh, I know another
[00:09:35] peagandan or I know a rendezvous person and then they will introduce you and you start building
[00:09:41] your network slowly but surely. And continuously as we spoke to people, we realized we were all
[00:09:49] in the same situation. So we thought, yeah, let's come together as the African community,
[00:09:54] Iceland, the Ashwara community and let's have an event, bring some home food because that was
[00:10:01] another thing. You know, in the early 2000s there was no African food. You would only sign one shop
[00:10:08] and you were missing home, not bit of home like your own food. So just bring some food and
[00:10:14] let's get together. Let's just have a good time. And so we organize myself and I see other
[00:10:21] people organized an event. And so that to my Facebook was just a bit new. I was saying,
[00:10:29] let's put it out there and see who will show up. And so we had an event of about 150 people coming.
[00:10:39] How did you feel at that point? You know, that must have been a good sense of achievement and
[00:10:43] going, I'm actually helping people, you know, and I thought I was alone.
[00:10:46] It was quite overwhelming in a nice way, like seeing people and hearing people speaking their own
[00:10:52] languages and coming with the culture food. And we had music so you know, African people have a good
[00:10:59] party, right? So everybody was having so much fun and it was really nice. So everybody was like,
[00:11:05] oh, well done. That was a great event. Let's do it again. You know, so we did it a couple
[00:11:12] of times. We did events a couple of times and then from those events, while you were speaking
[00:11:19] and to different people. So because obviously like now you were seeing as a leader, because you're
[00:11:24] the one organizing things, reaching out to different communities, you're by default,
[00:11:30] you're the leader of the group. People would come to me and go, oh, I have this problem
[00:11:36] that I don't know how to deal with it. My housing or my landlord, it being really nasty
[00:11:41] because we have a lack of understanding of systems like the UK systems are so complicated.
[00:11:49] I mean, they're complicated for people living in the UK. Never mind you just coming in new.
[00:11:53] Yeah, exactly. They're complicated. Were you having to relearn these systems as well to help others?
[00:11:59] Yeah, and it was just some different advice. Okay, so what do you do if you need a council
[00:12:04] house? Oh, this is where you go and you have to high-floor this fall. And so you build
[00:12:09] that knowledge of a client by asking questions or my child is having a bit of an issue at school
[00:12:15] or I can't get into my crunch limit school, what do I do? And then you start finding information
[00:12:21] or you start finding people in the community who have expertise in that area. So you pick
[00:12:25] their brains and you bring them on board. It was more like a befriending service or I support
[00:12:31] each other type service. It was never an organization. It was very informal, you know, let's help
[00:12:37] each other. And so once we realize, like every time you go to a meeting as an advocate,
[00:12:45] at that point you don't know you're an advocate, but you're kind of speaking on behalf of the
[00:12:49] other person because you have the knowledge they don't. And we saw, oh, every time you go
[00:12:54] to a meeting they ask me, and who are you? And who are you? And I said, oh, I'm a friend or
[00:13:01] and it was quite confusing. So I quickly found out that if you're an organization,
[00:13:06] it's usually better. So if you're an organization, there's a sort of like,
[00:13:11] a respect that an organization has come along to support this person. So they give you,
[00:13:17] like it carries more weight. And so we started the organization in 2014 as a charitable
[00:13:25] organization. And we've been running since and we do loads of different activities for the
[00:13:30] community. And this is passion for fusion. This is passion for theater. Amazing. You never set out
[00:13:38] to do this. It kind of just snowballed it, didn't it? Just it started growing. Everybody was
[00:13:43] depending on you, but you're going through this as well. You're putting your roots down here.
[00:13:48] You're kind of learning as you go. I mean, how do you feel about this point?
[00:13:52] I have the community behind me and I still do have the community behind me,
[00:13:57] which is always a pleasure. Like there is so much joy in giving back.
[00:14:04] And so at that point, I think this is from my app, it comes from my app ringing.
[00:14:11] My household was always full of people coming to tell my parents about one problem or another.
[00:14:19] And my parents were always solving problems, you know? So and somebody was sitting on the
[00:14:25] village and they said, oh, we need to take them to hospital. My mom would be like, okay,
[00:14:29] let's go and let this person has a car. Let's take it. So it was always a problem solving mode.
[00:14:35] So I must have picked it up cautiously. And so even when we started passion for fusion,
[00:14:42] it wasn't a job. It was it was like part of what we did at WIM, you know, supporting each
[00:14:49] other, supporting the community. But it was nice also. Like right now, sometimes I just pitch myself
[00:14:56] think like how we have grown and the impact we are continuing to make in the community is
[00:15:03] just so amazing when I go out and I feel like all the children on the football pitch or all the
[00:15:10] adults doing fun stuff or well, whatever, it's just nice. I always feel like it's not a job
[00:15:18] for me. It's a pleasure to be able to support the community and to run the organization as well.
[00:15:28] I think that's so inspiring. Could you tell us about passion for fusion, the organization and what
[00:15:33] you provide? So we're a Black led charity organization. We're based in Edinburgh and
[00:15:41] West Lodien, the Lodians. And we do a lot of work around integration and we use tools like football,
[00:15:52] basketball, I mean clubs, we hold well-being classes for children and young people.
[00:16:01] We did an app to black and brown young people because what they said is that they could never
[00:16:08] see themselves in resources and they started in COVID. So they said, well we turn to ourselves
[00:16:15] in resources when they go on YouTube. They can relate to the mental health and well-being resources
[00:16:22] that are out there. So that's why we created the app. We will be coming out soon. We do a lot
[00:16:28] of health and well-being work and we support Black and Brown adults who have chronic illness
[00:16:35] sets. So for example diabetes is a big problem in our community and HIV, we have people who have
[00:16:45] young people, well I say young people like people when they are 40 and 50 starting to get Parkinson's
[00:16:49] disease. So as I said having the knowledge and the support for example going to a doctor's,
[00:16:59] you know, the doctor will see you for 10 minutes and if he don't speak clearly,
[00:17:03] if he don't speak the language, you can't articulate yourself, it's really difficult sometimes to be
[00:17:08] able to get your health questions answered but if you have someone else I will cite you on the
[00:17:15] explained things clearly it helps and I had told you when you first come into the country
[00:17:19] you don't understand the systems, where do you go for a job, what kind of training do I need,
[00:17:25] how do I speak, even how we speak is very different. So sometimes it's a barrier to get
[00:17:30] employment so we do a lot of like employability work right now and alongside CCP and Edinburgh
[00:17:37] and so we're a small charity with a big impact. So what's been the main issue that people are
[00:17:44] facing right now that are coming to you and joy? Yeah at the moment I think the biggest
[00:17:51] issue we have is the cost of living prices like everybody else, you know, and things are
[00:17:57] going up and wages are not going up and people have to continue to leave and pay so that's the
[00:18:03] main issue at the minute now and so we have to support people around okay send them to food banks
[00:18:11] or we do a part of employability work, we're doing income maximization. So we'll sit with them and
[00:18:20] do some budgeting work okay this is where you can cut down, this is where you can
[00:18:25] maybe increase your income by getting benefit if you're entitled to benefit. So I think at the
[00:18:31] moment but I think and generally like I said integration is a big issue because obviously
[00:18:39] you don't understand systems, you don't have people around you, you don't have friends so it
[00:18:45] takes you trying to settle down in the UK because you're trying to find information if
[00:18:51] you're lucky you'll find people like questions for Fijian and they will support you and through the
[00:18:57] journey but if you're unnitty you're just going around in circles remember we say the systems are
[00:19:02] complicated it works out that it's the systems are complicated and I think there's a lot of
[00:19:09] barriers around discrimination and lack of understanding of culture okay so for example
[00:19:16] someone goes to a job and they speak differently that can be a barrier either to
[00:19:24] progression within the job or at your probation stage it's like well the customers are
[00:19:30] complicated they don't understand you know and the businesses have a duty of care but they don't
[00:19:36] you can't always pay get on to that sort of like the lack of cultural competence
[00:19:42] but we've been working with employers where we're with clearing them look
[00:19:47] the fact that I speak differently doesn't mean that I can't give a good service or the fact that
[00:19:53] I'm a different color it doesn't mean that I can't and give a good service so I think
[00:20:00] generally there's a lot of like cultural lack of cultural understanding which becomes a barrier
[00:20:06] for people from the community to integrate properly the other issue that we have is that
[00:20:13] there's a difference again in culture in foods so for example if I refer a Muslim client
[00:20:21] to a food ban the food ban needs to be aware that there's some foods that they can't take
[00:20:28] because of their religious beliefs or there's some food they don't even know how to use
[00:20:34] so for example in the pandemic we were supporting people to learn how to cook different food because
[00:20:40] that's what they had to live with yeah so then again as I said that lack of cultural understanding
[00:20:47] you know African people for example are very polite they will take the food but then you
[00:20:53] couldn't do anything with it yeah you know so and then it causes another problem on the back
[00:21:00] of that which may be food waste because they're keeping it and they don't want to say no because
[00:21:04] they're feeling grateful and they're keeping it so yeah it's really sad in this day and age that
[00:21:13] this is happening in Scotland and yeah but I'll say at the moment the biggest issue is the
[00:21:18] custolary crisis with everybody part of passion profusion what can we learn from in a
[00:21:24] few anti-racism practices right here in Scotland yeah so I guess for me when I'm talking to my
[00:21:32] white Scottish friends about anti-racist practices I'm asking them to be active listeners
[00:21:38] you know most of us because or you know that white fragility you feel like oh you're being
[00:21:47] attacked it's not attacking you as a person but it's this thing that is around us that we're trying
[00:21:54] to manage so for example if you're actively listening it means you're not listening to give
[00:22:01] an answer you're not listening to defend your position you're listening to learn and listening
[00:22:08] to understand okay and so the other thing is we have to learn and and learn a lot of things
[00:22:16] and right now in Scotland I'm quite grateful because since we had the George Floyd situation
[00:22:23] I think more people are open to listening and learning but before that I tell you it's like
[00:22:31] if you talked about racism it was like you just your knickers off in front of the audience
[00:22:38] it was just you don't speak about that kind of stuff you know are you using the race
[00:22:45] the race card are you talking you know it was it was never a subject that you felt comfortable
[00:22:51] to talk about so and I think now there's more and more conversation and I think because it's
[00:22:58] an uncomfortable conversation it's difficult you know so we need to be comfortable and the
[00:23:05] more we talk about things the easier it becomes and the easier it becomes to solve the problem
[00:23:14] you know but if we don't talk about it's it's constantly under the carpet and so there's a
[00:23:19] lot to learn and and learn that we need to be active listeners and we also need to be open
[00:23:26] to different people different culture there is beauty in diversity there's a lot of learning
[00:23:33] about you know different people's food music hair skin whatever but people are worried they don't like
[00:23:40] to ask questions you know because all I may come off as a satin way yeah if you don't ask you don't
[00:23:49] learn as long as you're doing it respectfully you know I think people from the black and
[00:23:55] brown community are more open to talking about their cultures or their things that make them
[00:24:03] uncomfortable as well and there's a lot of there's still a lot of work that we have to do in Scotland
[00:24:09] but if we're not open to learning if we don't get comfortable with this uncomfortable conversation
[00:24:15] we're not going to get anywhere no we're not and that's why we're having the conversation
[00:24:22] right now and I always ask when I'm doing like training and anti-racism training I always ask
[00:24:29] people like think about your cycle of friends or think about your cycle of trust or think about
[00:24:38] not in the white situation because in what we all work with different people and that's fine we come
[00:24:43] and go off but beyond that how are people are different from you that tells you a lot if you can
[00:24:51] answer that question and I'm not asking you to answer me and think about like real community
[00:24:57] real friendships around you yeah how many people are different from you are from a different culture
[00:25:04] are from a different country are a different kind that tells a lot about us as a society in
[00:25:12] Scotland when we're thinking about race and colour and culture this beauty and culture because it's
[00:25:19] about learning about what the other cultures do that we could pick up or we can work with
[00:25:24] as well and so for me that one it's like friendships deep connection is one of the things that I
[00:25:30] want to teach people as an African woman and I want to teach my Scottish friends how we can
[00:25:37] have the meaningful connections not just off the top how is the weather how is your work type of
[00:25:45] conversation because we can't think that we're sticking with we're sticking with really maybe
[00:25:51] some deep issues and we want to talk and you want to talk to someone a true friend but
[00:25:58] you can because again there's that barrier I remember our last conversation on the phone was
[00:26:04] cultural differences when you were sitting in that coffee shop with your sister a person came over
[00:26:09] and served you coffee yeah yeah and from your culture you were taught like a white person shouldn't
[00:26:17] be doing that could you yeah story it goes back to colonialism and I think we were
[00:26:25] taught that white people are better than us you know they're smarter than us they are you know
[00:26:31] it's privilege right it's privilege so when I came to this country I came expecting that anyway
[00:26:39] you know I came expecting that I would be serving white people if I had to and so when we went
[00:26:46] to a coffee shop and we sat down and this lovely white girl came and came and tried to add
[00:26:52] take our order I was like like do you know internally I was like oh my goodness like I'm also important
[00:26:59] like this white girl is serving me and you know I was an educated woman it's not I you know I wasn't
[00:27:05] ignorant but it's that colonial mindset that makes you think that they're better than you because
[00:27:13] they're white or because they're more educated I was in all like oh my goodness when I walked
[00:27:19] around Edinburgh and there's white homeless people that is not a picture that we had like
[00:27:25] white people can be poor I think it's not the way how is that possible and so again that was another
[00:27:33] shock to my sister we are like this you know like I am important and it made me realize like
[00:27:41] okay actually it's not like that and that's where you start to unland some of those things
[00:27:47] but it takes time it's a long long process almost ingrained in your DNA because your parents
[00:27:55] computer if like everybody around there is you go to the ad there and you go to a restaurant my
[00:28:01] husband's white and we go to a restaurant automatically the servers will assume that he's the one
[00:28:09] paying the bill because he's white because he's got money you know I know right it's so
[00:28:19] yeah it's so mind-boggling how it's so ingrained in our system how does that make you feel
[00:28:27] after we've gone like I constantly feel like I have to educate people about it because it was such
[00:28:33] a less than for me as well and I like without judgment I was like that too so I had to unland
[00:28:44] and learn more like okay so like systems are built to make you feel like that from colonial days
[00:28:52] and it always felt like it's inbuilt in our DME but let me tell you something I mean it this is
[00:29:00] real conversation like we need to unland a lot of black and brown people need to unland that they
[00:29:08] almost feel like the gratitude of even the gratitude of being in Scotland is like they're doing your
[00:29:14] favor up from to their countries and it's just no actually you know you're making a difference in
[00:29:20] this country yeah you're coming you're here to contribute to this country to make this country
[00:29:26] great you know it is very unconscious we do it unconsciously and so sometimes that can limit
[00:29:37] what we do because of our beliefs or because of our education or assumptions or whatever so for me
[00:29:47] I feel like I constantly have to educate people like actually look it's fine today I'm the one
[00:29:55] paying the bill you're like my next to me bill recall good for you guys what advice would you give
[00:30:03] to women who are listening right now who want to make these big changes first of all women I think
[00:30:10] we're made as problem solvers you know a woman will go in her kitchen and make up a meal out of
[00:30:18] nothing you know because we're trying to solve a problem so for me I just want to encourage women
[00:30:25] to see whatever you want to do you can do it just go for it one thing for sure if you build a good
[00:30:35] support network around you and people who can encourage you people who can list you up people
[00:30:42] who can support you and your vision and your idea and whatever you're trying to do if you can do that
[00:30:50] I think women we're unstoppable you know but we don't know that we just don't know that and it's
[00:30:57] about believing in ourselves believing that we can do things because we as women we're marginalized
[00:31:05] it doesn't matter your white brown or black you're still marginalized and so we need to start
[00:31:11] believing in ourselves I think we can do all these amazing great things educate yourself
[00:31:19] learn from other people and learning is not just in the classroom learning from your community
[00:31:25] learning is online learning is from people learning from other women so educate yourself
[00:31:33] in whatever way because you always have I mean I don't know about you but things like
[00:31:39] trains are changing very rapidly you wake up tomorrow and it's like AI and A.I. that and
[00:31:45] and you're like okay I didn't even realize so we constantly have to be on the ball learning
[00:31:51] and educating ourselves if we want to make a difference but the most important thing for me
[00:31:58] if you want to make a difference even to that one person even to that one person
[00:32:05] that is a huge great achievement never underestimate what you can it could be talking to your neighbor
[00:32:13] who is going through mental health issues and having and being that listening ear that's already
[00:32:20] creating impact in the community you know so for me I just want to say to women go for
[00:32:26] your game changers your problem solve as your world changes you can do it so absolutely go for it
[00:32:35] thanks so much Helena we end every episode on Scotland's women with a quote a quote that
[00:32:41] keep on you and you always remember and it just helps you when sharing that with us
[00:32:47] yeah it's for sure so um one thing I didn't say to you I'm a Christian
[00:32:51] so I probably said a lot that I go to church so you've probably worked that out but I
[00:32:57] am rely a lot on the Bible for strength or for word or for something and I think my
[00:33:02] high quote and comes from the Bible and it says I can do all things through Christ who
[00:33:09] strengthened me that is a quote from the Bible that gives me hope when I'm doing things and
[00:33:16] I'm feeling a bit down and I feel like things are not working out it encourages me I'm encouraging
[00:33:23] myself to do I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me I can do and that usually
[00:33:29] is something that does something sweeter than my brain that I've got this that is amazing
[00:33:37] thank you so much for sharing that with us thank you so much for coming on today to
[00:33:41] Scotland's Women thanks for having me thank you take care hi thank you for listening to
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